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Children, Christmas and Commercialism

December 18th, 2009

Stokke in Olive Green Chair

It makes me chuckle a little when people express the opinion that Christmas has become so commercialized. To my way of thinking, business does what it always has done – companies come up with new and inventive products they think people want and then they come up with new and inventive ways to get people to buy things they may or may not want or need. Yes, I admit, it annoys that the beginning of the Christmas advertising season seems to start a little earlier every year.

But if Christmas has evolved into being all about the gifts and how much each one costs, perhaps we should hold advertising responsible and not blame the holiday for something it didn’t do. After all, Christmas is us: it’s a celebration of our religious beliefs; it’s a holiday we take part in irregardless of what we personally believe because it’s an integral part of the cultural fabric of our country; it’s a day off from work. Whatever the holiday means to each one of us personally, it’s up to each individual to decide how they will enjoy the holiday season, and that includes how much to spend.

There’s no denying that advertising intensifies around holidays like St. Valentine’s Day, Thanksgiving and Christmas. And especially around this time of year, the ads for all kinds of new games, activities and toys are aimed directly at children. That does concern me, since their little minds are like sponges and they eagerly take in everything around them. I’ve been lucky with my daughter Louisa: after a trip to Toys R Us when she was four she kept asking me to explain how toys can be us since toys aren’t people. To this day, she questions everything she sees in an advertisement that doesn’t make sense to her. Of my two children destined to buy a brand name product just because they’ve seen it on TV, my son Bobby is more likely to be influenced by ads than my daughter.

The experts warn us that while commercialism can affect children at an early age, its negative side effects, including materialism, unrealistic expectations and destructive financial management, might not manifest themselves until later in life. If commercialism during the holidays (and year-round) concerns you, there are ways to combat its overpowering influence.

  • Limit TV watching to a specific amount of time per day.
  • Until they are five, restrict their TV time to programming for children that doesn’t include advertising. If the local station or cable company in your area doesn’t offer this alternative, borrow or rent kids’ movies and TV programs from the library or your favorite DVD rental place and let your children watch these instead.
  • Set the example. Break the habit of buying things: check first to see if it can be repaired, repurposed or recycled. Instead of buying more decorations for the trees, make them (spending crafts time with your kids is the pay-off). Rather than decorating the front door or the dining table with a store-bought wreath or centerpiece, design and make your own.
  • Buy toys for your children that don’t need updates, add-ons, etc. Giving them toys like a jump rope, a rocking horse, drawing materials like a coloring book or a pad of paper and chalk/water colors/crayons or a dollhouse will help them discover their creativity and develop their imaginations.
  • Encourage and promote activities that don’t require any money, such as walk to a nearby playground or park; sidewalk games like hopscotch; an impromptu family picnic.

Lisa, mom of a son (5) and a daughter (11)

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Bunk Bed Safety Tips

December 4th, 2009

Desk and Storage Stairs

Bunk beds are often associated with kids and are considered to be an easy and convenient way to decorate a child’s room, particularly if siblings have to share a room or if the room is smaller in size. But as a parent or relative furnishing a room for “the kids” when they visit, there are some things you should know about bunk beds and bunk bed safety that will keep all bunk bed users, adults and children alike, safe and secure when sleeping.

Bunk Bed Safety Standards

Creek Bunk Bed

The U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission requires that any bunk bed sold in the United States must meet the following requirements:

  • a label on the bunk bed stating the manufacturer’s name, model number and mattress size information
  • includes a warning label advising against placing children under six years of age in the upper bunk
  • must have a continuous guardrail on the wall side of bed if the bunk bed is taller than 30 inches
  • openings on the unit, either as part of the upper or lower bunk, must be small enough that a child’s head, torso, or limbs cannot pass through

To prevent the possibility of strangulation, the American Society for Testing and Materials (ASTM), the organization in charge of bunk bed safety standards, made recent amendments to their safety guidelines. Any vertical protrusion above 3/16 of an inch is now considered to be unsafe and largely affects the use of decorative finials.

A Word about Second-hand Bunk Beds

While flea markets, garage sales and consignment stores are great resources for families on a budget, there are some things to keep in mind before buying a used or second-hand bunk bed.

  • The information label required for new bunks with the manufacturer’s names, model number, etc. should also be on any second-hand bunk bed you decide to purchase.
  • The new safety standard regarding how high vertical protrusions can be was only introduced at the beginning of 2009. Any second-hand bunk bed you buy should not have finials or if it does, they should be able to be removed easily without compromising the structure or design of the bed.
  • Since safety standards are constantly being upgraded, know the current bunk bed safety standards and make that the second-hand bunk bed you choose meets all of them.
  • Make sure that the assembly instructions are included; check the bunk bed pieces again the parts list on the instruction sheet to see if there is anything missing.

Suggested Ways to Make Bunk Beds Safer

Bunk Bed in Golden Maple

Bunk beds should not be purchased for children under six. If you are buying a bunk bed for a child’s room that will be shared by one under the age of six and one who is older, the older child should get the top bunk. Encourage the younger child not to use the ladder to the upper bunk unless they are supervised.

For first time bunk bed users, consider installing a nightlight to make it easier to use the ladder safely if they have to get out of bed during the night. No matter what the age of the bunk bed user, adding a night light to a guest room furnished with bunk beds will make the journey to the bathroom or kitchen in a “strange” house a little safer.

Limit the number of children on the top bunk to one or the weight capacity of the top bunk.

Do not allow any bouncing or roughhousing on the top bunk.

Discourage your children from tying ropes or cords anywhere on the top bunk to eliminate any potential strangulation hazards.

Inspect the bunk bed on a regular basis; tighten any bolts or screws that may have loosened with use. If anything is broken, repair or replace it as soon as possible.

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Playing with Puzzles

December 3rd, 2009

Cardboard Jigsaw Puzzle

Just like something your kids like to eat, if they enjoy doing puzzles, don’t tell them that it’s good for them! Encouraging young children to play with puzzles is a great way to help your child grow and develop. Benefits of doing puzzles include, increasing organizational skills, hand-eye coordination and attention to detail. Unknown to them, they will be developing problem solving skills, as well. All sorts of good educational and developmental things are happening as kids put a puzzle together: they are learning to observe; they must process the information; and they are analyzing how to make something “chaotic” into a whole picture. And besides, it’s just plain fun.

Cube Wooden Puzzle

For children to reap the benefits of puzzle-solving, ensure that the puzzle is age-appropriate. Buying puzzles that are geared to their specific developmental level eliminates potential frustration. If they get frustrated, the fun element will disappear very quickly and your child may be reluctant to try another one.

Buy at least three or four puzzles: in the event they really like it, you’ll be able to give them a new one right away. You don’t want them to get bored with the activity, which might happen if they have to do the same puzzle over and over.

For first-time puzzle users, consider doing the puzzle together. Give your son or daughter tips on how to put the puzzle together, like finding the corner and straight-edges pieces first.

Bounty Floor Puzzle

Particularly for a toddler, but applicable of course to older children as well, jigsaw puzzles develop hand-eye coordination as they decide what piece goes where. It also aids in the recognition of shapes and colors. The process of deciding where to place each piece and differentiating between puzzle pieces of varying colors and shapes increases you’re child’s reasoning skills too.

Naturally they are adding to their knowledge of the world round them when they are putting together a jigsaw puzzle about animals, the alphabet, outer space or the ocean. Knowledge they “discover” for themselves through activities such as playing with jigsaw puzzles often lasts longer than knowledge acquired by more formal methods such as memorization.

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